Nothing gets done until someone does something. Those someone’s are your staff. Recently a friend quit her job for a new better position closer to home. I couldn’t help but thinking that part of the reason she left was due to how she was treated.
I am not a great “people” person. I am better than Christian Wolff from “T
he Accountant” as I don’t shoot people and I do have the reputation of being a decent boss. CFO’s in general tend to be quieter than other exec’s, more introspective, we do spend an inordinate amount of time analyzing information, have a large body of technical accounting knowledge and normally emotional intelligence isn’t a prerequisite for the job. Whether you are great at this or not, there are three things I’ve learned that a any senior executive can do to improve their relationships at work. And good relationships lead to lower turnover and higher work satisfaction.
1) Respect your staff. In the movie, Jerry Maguire, Rod Tidwell wanted “quan”. Quan is loosely translated as respect, admiration for skill and the money. Most professionals want their time and skills respected. I hated waiting outside my bosses office for a meeting to begin. I hated getting slide changes for the board meeting 30 minutes before the directors arrived. Respect your people’s efforts. Many senior executives feel more comfortable micro-managing and doing their employees work. Don’t be surprised if your staff doesn’t like it.
2) Talk to your staff. I believe in weekly one on one meetings. The purpose of the meeting is to go over current projects and planning, but you must leave time for the personal. I always started the meeting with a check in and if that was good proceeded to work related issues. Your staff doesn’t leave its humanity at the door when they come to work. Many of my meetings dealt with personal issues, smoothing out work disputes, and understanding more about my staff’s interests, goals and dreams. Unfortunately, a lot of what we do in modern corporations is repetitive and can be a bit dull. If there isn’t a pressing problem, I didn’t cancel the meeting but I’d cut it a little short and we’d focus on mutual interests. If there is a pressing problem the check in was usually cursory. Personal chat is distracting if you are on a deadline.
3) Listen to your staff. If they are dissatisfied it will come out. Usually you are told multiple times before an executive quits. Listening means quieting your voice and engaging with someone else’s story. Listening includes more than just the words. Word selection, intonation, facial expression, eye movements, body position are some of the elements of good listening. Listening takes an effort and your staff can sense when you are putting that effort out and when you aren’t.
Dale Carnegie was right, simply smiling and listening can make a difference in relationships. Often a simple thank you to the staff is all that is required. Turnover is a normal, but lots of turnover occurs because your staff doesn’t feel the quan.
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Dr. John Zott is the CFO for Carlson Wireless Technologies, and Principal consultant at Bates Creek Consulting. John is the chair of the Careers Committee at FEI Silicon Valley, a senior adjunct professor at Golden Gate University and comments regularly on issues that affect consumer businesses. If you are a former student, colleague or would just like to connect – reach out.